I really think people "think" too much sometimes. Mainly women, but men at times too. I am learning how to maneuver this new single life quickly although rather roughly. I really think I am just trying to have a good time, but maybe it's my personality that makes it seem like I have some ulterior motive. Honestly, I am too busy to be thinking anything too seriously at this point besides internal questions like "did I eat lunch?" or "did I feed the dogs?" Seriously, my brain feels like mush most days. So I just want to HAVE FUN! Why is that so hard to understand? Why is that so unbelievable?
Maybe women in general are so famished for "the relationship" that guys out there are in a real hurry to set standards out loud for you so low so that you don't get attached too them or expect too much. Mainly they don't want you to expect too much, or even expect the bare minimum, which is a total turn off to having any sort or relationship- laid back or serious with a guy.
I know my standards are high, as they should be. Or are they just respectable? Are there really women out there that put up with this behavior? Even if I don't want something serious, I do want to matter.
It's just too bad that the "over thinking" can "end" something before it even starts.....
Oh well, back into the dating pool I go. This time I will watch out for the sharks a little better :)